PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT -2
How to IMPROVE our PERSONALITY ?
Before that....
I used to think that if I did well groomed, well dressed etc. I would be a good personality!
(But that alone is not enough)
One's external looks not only designs their personality but also their CHARACTER, BEHAVIOUR, FEELINGS, THOUGHTS including LOOKS only defines one's personality.
If you are a person having another level personality but having zero looks many people will get attracted with you. But you having 100% looks having zero personality people also their with you.
(Until you interact with them.)
Ones we start to interact with them they will definitely notice our CHARACTOR, BELIEF, FEELINGS etc. will come out. If that is not good, we are destroying our value our self.
Why PERSONALITY is very IMPORTANT ?
Only an interesting person can grab the attention of others.
Only someone with good personality, they can be an interesting person.
Looks only make us for some minutes!
For example,
Imagine that top beautiful/handsome person one side and most interesting person other side.
Which one you prefer to date?
Obviously an Interesting person!
Looks only good for just our eyes, not to interact.
If some one wants to like us personality plays a vital role.
If we doesn't have a good personality, it doesn't matters. It is an attainable skill.
" I fell in love with your personality,
your looks are just a bonus."
A good personality also help us to stand out from Crowd.
In a relationship or approaching an opposite gender, definitely we need looks to be confident and building a mentality to approach.
But after "number exchange", "after first date" at that time a person having good personality only can build the super healthy relationship.
Lets move to our First QUESTION!
How to IMPROVE our PERSONALITY ?
There are many ways to improve our personality. That may get differ with career, relationship, location etc. But there are some general steps to up our personality from in frame to out frame!
- BE A GOOD LISTERNER
In school, collage, office no matter who are in the world, do not interrupt when they are speaking.
ALWAYS BE A GOOOD LISTENER.
It is more important to be a positive attituded person.
Suppose a person always speak negative stuffs, we don't like to spent our time with that kind of people. On the other hand, if there is someone who is very happy and has a positive attitude, we always like to spent time with them. (If they come we will have a joy.)
Presenting our looks is also inside our personality.
Taking care of our face, hair and hair styles, our dressing, nails, tooth, beard etc. also more important because these all are creating our first impression.
- BE A COOL PERSON
If we are serious all time, no one get attract with us. Try to wake up our fun loving, humorous and smiling dude. That is very easy to be a person like this. First of all, Have a smiling face always. If we smile to the person in front of us we feel happy and also make others happy!
Secondly, Maintaining eye contact. It shows How confident we are.
Then Having a good posture. Keep the spine straight!
- BE POLITE
It is very important to be very polite to those who serve us.
If we want to be unique from those who speaks rudely, we must have a good personality. So to be a person with a good personality we also have to be with a very polite person.
For example:
If you go to a restaurant and the food doesn't arrive at the right time or the food doesn.t arrive as we would like or you go to have a service from some other you not get satisfied, If you rise your voice slightly, it project that How arrogant person you are! It damages your whole personality at the very time! In this kind situations, it is more important to be controlled and polite person. It is directly proportional to the personality we hold.
- TO BE OURSELF
The unique factor of our personality is to be our self. Having our own opinion and decisions. It is very easy to copy others and saying okay to other opinion and decisions. But having our own opinion and not giving okay to others opinion, is difficult. It helps us to make originality.
The more uncommon opinions we have, the more unique we will be!
OVERALL PERSONALITY
- 30% of our personality goes our looks. (Presentable, Dressing, walk, posture etc.)
- 70% of our personality goes, giving others respect, politeness, handling situations etc. like little little stuffs.
Love you๐
Piece☮
Do what you want, what you love. Limited time.
Ameer✌
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